
Neutrality
February 5, 2025You are the Instrument: How to better approach and interact with your clients

How sad it is that conscientious practitioners go to endless advanced trainings to improve their skills and feel more confident, when the missing ingredient is not outside their existing body of knowledge, but in themselves. How they use themselves, including:
- Their own self organization-both physically and emotionally.
- Their own degree of self regulation.
- Their ability to know themselves from an internal place.
By looking and sensing ourselves from within, we can modify our existing habits and self organize anew.
Do you confront your fears, your biases, your self-limiting beliefs? Otherwise we fall prey to our existing patterns—both neuromuscularly and emotionally.
It’s not what you do with your clients, it’s “how” you approach and interact with them that yields better results.
How you create the proper “Relational Field”, so that they feel safe.
So they can “drop down” and their Nervous System feels seen and witnessed.
Then there is no miscommunication between the two of you.
And it is from that place that they can learn new patterns, let go of old inefficient ways of behaving and using themselves, so that what you do with them really takes hold.